Single moms’ stigma is uncalled for because like many of us majority of single moms were victims of carefree and unguided minds.

I think it’s time to boost the morale of single moms all over the globe, especially those who were overtaken by unexpected pregnancy before they met Lord and Lover of their soul. Without mincing words, I want to say most single moms are humane, courageous and bold. They are female folks who did not allow the mistakes of the past to tarnish or frustrate their envisaged future.

Virtually all single moms in Christ and outside ‘the faith’ deserve a salute.

The decision to have the unplanned- for-baby, being unmarried, is a welcome and honourable one as against the option of abortion. Such a decision could have only emanated from a firm, courageous and purpose-driven mind. Of course, at that instance of battling with an unexpected pregnancy either as a teenager or fresh young adult, it would have been a tough decision to have the baby without having the father of the child as a life partner. However, often than not, it’s perhaps the best decision any futuristic and knowledgeable lady could have made at such an instance.

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Moreso, if she does not see any connection with the playboy and her preferred future, besides the sexual affair they shared before the unexpected outcome. In Christian marriage counselling, it is an established revelation that unexpected pregnancy is not a strong and sufficient reason to enter into wedlock with a sin partner. No, it is not. It’s a pity that the majority of young women who did otherwise by going ahead to marry their sin partner on the ground of pregnancy are still wallowing in their regretful step at the moment.

Being a single mom is neither a crime nor a Stigma, it depends on who you are and your understanding of life and God’s plan for you. Matured and understanding guys who have a privilege of dating or engaging single moms who have gotten a whole new life in the Lord should be able to admit that they are not missing anything out in the deal. Rather, they are in a relationship with a purposeful, courageous and daring (positively) woman who chose to humble herself and right her wrong instead of being a murderer of a foetus or throwing the new-born baby in a garbage site.

Some single moms are ladies who took the temporary shame of nursing a child out of wedlock than being in a padlocked and dreadlocks union. For me, this is commendable but the society sees it as condemnable especially some to-be in-law of a single mom that has found a genuine love.

For most single moms, I  belove their experience is an opportunity to start all over again properly and to rewrite the test of love with a piece of more correct and relevant knowledge. One whole truth that Christian single moms must admit and begin to live with is the fact that – a relationship mistake or fall out is not a sufficient reason to define you in a bad light forever or distort the rest of your life and destiny.

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Furthermore, guys with a sound mind and a heart tainted with true love know that a single mom is as good and acceptable as a non-single mom lady out there. The difference is just that one is bold and forthright enough to deal with a major life setback and still move on while the other is even yet to be tested at all in a major way in relationship issues.

The values of a truly repentant single mom seem to be more predictable than an ordinary single lady out there in the field of love and relationship. For example, a single mom could be said to be someone who has proved that one can always stage a comeback after a major setback in life.

Let’s keep celebrating all purpose-driven single moms on the globe. We must begin to applaud the courage that made them took a chance for their real dream marriage despite unwanted pregnancy before wedlock. And the truth is: as a single mom, the man who truly loves you, will not have a separate love for your child than he has for you. You can count on God, he will show up someday before your very face.

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I hereby make a clarion call by this message to all single moms: “Never allow anybody stigmatise you for being responsible enough to bring forth that baby without necessarily exchanging marriage vows with the supposed father of your child, to your detriment. I dare say: most single moms are the pride of a segment of womanhood – ladies/young women who have succeeded in proving that female folk, though like weaker vessels, can live above their mistakes and unexpected life setback in a certain season of life.

Nonetheless, this write-up does exonerate single moms by choice in any way and manner. I am talking about those women who left their matrimonial homes with a child (-ren) because of insubordination and self-serving attitudes towards their spouse. I advise these to humble themselves and makeup with abandoned spouses or else they will most likely remain unfulfilled in life generally and create psychological problems for their children in the future.

©️ MAGI

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