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Is There Still Any Dignity In keeping One’s Virginity?

In a world where virginity has almost become non-existent even among boys and girls who are under fifteen years; what is the hope of raising moral and sexually pure families, communities and churches?

Is it not disturbing that in this present world, guys and ladies who try to keep their virginity because they are unmarried tend to be ashamed of it? It is being projected that single people who abstain from sexual acts including masturbation are backward and uncivilized. What a weird way to describe a state of dignity that God gifted to all of mankind, especially the women folk?

However, irrespective of the position this immoral and unguided generation may assume on the issue of virginity, the beauty of virginity does not and will never fade away forever. Why? God is involved.

The dignity in virginity is all encompassing in the lives of those who get married as virgins (sexually pure). That is, it tells on every vital area of their lives in a positive way. Keeping one’s virginity till wedding day is a great honour done to the Almighty God and The Holy One. And He never ceases to compensate those who keep themselves pure until marriage.

It is only sane and decent to make it a goal to keep oneself sexually pure until one meets his or her spouse. Virginity is admirable and honourable among the unammried folks, it is the pride of men and women who fear the Lord and live in obedience to Him. I read somewhere that: “Losing virginity before marriage is part of growing up.”
This is grossly misleading and catastrophic to the mindset of young growing decent folks.

Virginity is a sacred gift from the creator to all mankind.
It is supposed to be broken ONLY under the atmosphere of marriage according to our Maker. But unfortunately, it is trendy to break one’s virginity before marriage these days. However, those who understand the dignity in virginity are hardly swayed by such immoral trends.

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The truth is, there is no sense or wisdom in engaging in premarital sex if you are a child of God and you have plan to get married. It is just like stealing what belongs to you. Waiting to have sex in marriage is better than having sex for the fun of it outside marriage. Sex is far from being just fun or pleasure outside marriage, sex is a covenant practice meant for marriage only. This is one truth majority (who indulge in premarital sex) realize too late and with lots of regret accompanying it.

Ensuring sexual purity until you are married as a single person has a number of spiritual and material benefits. For instance, blessing of purity (as a result of obedience) comes upon your marriage and your endeavours. Apart from that, it shuts the door of your spirit, soul and body against the manipulation and infiltration of sexually immoral spirits. These spirits do cause havoc in many victims’ lives and wreck glorious destinies.

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The bible celebrates and protects virgins in various places in the scriptures but our generation bemoans them. What a great misdeed to undermine what scriptures esteem so highly?
I believe the fact that God holds virginity and virgins in a very high esteem, was a reason He sought after a virgin to actualize His ultimate salvation plan for mankind.
Do you know unbelievers who are virgins are as also potent as they can be? That’s why they are still sought after for highly sensitive rituals. This means even satan and his demons cherish virgins and their virginity, or why do you think he asks for virgin’s blood for highly sensitive rituals?

Know that virginity lost to sexual immorality is irrecoverable. Yes, when we are born again we are a new creation in Christ; but no one can have second natural virginity in a lifetime irrespective of their spiritual status. So keep that one if it is still intact. The dignity in virginity is timeless, priceless and highly esteemable. Virginity should be the best gift to one’s lawful partner after wedding.

Dear friends, if you are reading this message and you are a virgin, I admonish you to keep your virginity as a mark of honor to Our God and Father in heaven and make it the best wedding gift your spouse will ever get in a lifetime.

God hates all those who are sexually immoral.

Hebrews 13:4
“Marriage is honorable among all, and the bed undefiled, but fornicators and adulterers God will judge.”

©️ MAGI

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