The ideology of sexual compatibility being popularised these days among the unmarried is nothing but a farce.

It is simply a false and misleading notion being sold to the single folks in this generation. But God’s children who are married and unmarried must be wary of it, most especially those who are engaged. A critical look at the idea of sexual compatibility often suggests the promotion of sexual promiscuity and wantonness as its underlying motive.

Don’t be deceived, dear Christain singles- there is nothing like sexual compatibility in terms of preparation for a godly marriage. It is not a matter for consideration among God’s children who intend to get married decently. It’s incongruent with our faith as believers in Christ. And in my opinion, it is nothing but an immoral myth and theory; so forget trying sexual stuff before marriage or during courtship. Discussing such an issue during courtship is uncalled for and shows where you are both heading. Do better talks on more important things during courtship rather than discuss sexual compatibility.

Sex talks are best done in the marriage itself. Because when you talk about it, you have to practice it to make your discussion meaningful, useful, and harmless (since you are married). But such erotic discussions can be quite harmful and desecrating to the unmarried brethren.

Discussing or reviewing sexual compatibility before marriage is another subtle way of satan to get the Christian youths of today into an immoral lifestyle and tendencies. In the end, he succeeds in turning their backs against the love of their soul.
Watch it, dear single brother and sister. It is fallacious (serious error) for a child of God to admit that sexual compatibility is anything to go by when choosing a life partner.
Well-meaning intending Christian couples have no business thinking or talking about sexual compatibility because it is UNNECESSARY and not EXPEDIENT to do so.

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If at all people discuss it, such discussions are mostly held among the unbelievers and the sexually immoral minds. And it’s just one of the ways to actualize their illicit dreams and wanton passion. That is why they jump from one person to another to establish their sexual wantonness.
Sexual compatibility: a test run or discussion of sexual activities and capabilities before consummation is a fallacy. It’s a devious mindset aimed at making the Redeemed desecrate the matrimonial bed before marriage. Besides, it is capable of frustrating some heavenly-made unions through desecration.

It has been proved beyond any reasonable doubt that even two virgins who got married as novices can become experts and great sex partners. This is owed to the way God designed sex.
Moreso, there are Christian books that would teach you decent things about your sex life, how to enjoy it to the maximum, and have an extraordinarily great (but balanced) sex life. So sexual intimacy is nothing to worry about at all for Christian singles who are about to get married even if they have never had an experience of sex beforehand.

Just like a baby is not taught how to suck the mother’s breast; you don’t have to indulge in sex or discuss sex before marriage to enjoy sex in marriage. Sex between couples does not require experience to enjoy it to the maximum.
From experience, the Holy Ghost evens helps in this regard, because you practice it in a Holy Matrimony and He being the Holy Spirit, is always interested in everything that is ‘Holy’. This may seem funny but it is the truth.

More often than not, the sexual compatibility notion is an idea of immoral evil spirits promoting sexually immoral thoughts and sex before marriage (which God frowns at) among the believers. Eventually, the foundations of supposed glorious marital destinies are altered. Say no to sex talks and practices during courtship, God’s judgment is upon fornicators and all sexually immoral thoughts. Heb. 13:4.
Sex is only good for marriage and in marriage, be wise’. Sexual Compatibility is a farce, a fallacy, and grossly deceptive.

© MAGI

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