A couple who wed in February at Surulere, Lagos State, has finally gone their separate ways as both claimed they are no longer good for each other.
The wife, Mrs TBA, further disclosed, “My husband loves sex too much; he doesn’t get tired easily.” Whenever he comes back from work, he prefers having sex to anything else. I wish I had known all this before we got married, as I no longer have peace of mind in our marriage. The husband, on the other hand, said, “I would prefer breaking up because I can’t go out to have sex with another woman while I have a wife at home. I paid all the necessary rites; the mistake I made was not sleeping with her while we were dating, as our church rules are against such.
I wish we both had known much more about our sexual lives before getting married to each other. According to the husband, ‘My ex-wife gets tired just after 5 minutes, and I can’t deal with that.’ Hence, the marriage was concluded.
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Sincerely, when I got this story from a group I belonged to, what came to mind was: Are these people acting in a film or what? Because neither of them is prepared for marriage at all nor had an understanding of what it means to transit from being a man to a husband and woman to a wife.
The truth is, their problem is not sexual compatibility but rather a lack of self-awareness and a good understanding of the concepts and demands of marriage. They both have personal issues to deal with, without a doubt. I’m afraid that the lady has some personal issues with her sexuality; there may be some forms of childhood abuse, or she may be a victim of serial unpleasant sexual experiences before repenting, like sex for grades or money.
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Her disposition toward sex is weird and too uncomfortable for a one-month marriage. If she tires of sex easily in less than a month of marriage, then why marry? She needs to be probed. Even though she is a career woman, she does not carry bricks in the office. And for God’s sake, she is now a wife; her body belongs to her husband now, at least to put it in layman’s terms.
The husband’s position on not getting intimate enough with his wife is also harsh and rash. The bottom line is that these two have poor marriage counselling and a very shallow perspective on the institution of marriage and its intricacies.
They are both selfish. And like I have often said: “𝙎𝙚𝙡𝙛𝙞𝙨𝙝 𝙥𝙚𝙤𝙥𝙡𝙚 𝙨𝙝𝙤𝙪𝙡𝙙 𝙣𝙤𝙩 𝙜𝙚𝙩 𝙢𝙖𝙧𝙧𝙞𝙚𝙙 𝙗𝙚𝙘𝙖𝙪𝙨𝙚 𝙩𝙝𝙚𝙮 𝙘𝙖𝙣’𝙩 𝙨𝙩𝙖𝙮 𝙢𝙖𝙧𝙧𝙞𝙚𝙙.”
It’s unfortunate for them.
I hope some intending couples learn some vital lessons from this couple’s predicament.
©️ Seyi Igunsabi-Perez for M.A.G.I
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