Making one’s wife feel loved and cared for should be the goal of all responsible and sensible men. All well-meaning married men who are not opportunists need to understand how to make their wives feel loved to get the best out of them. All women are natural responders. Hence whatever you give them is always a raw material that they process and give back to you as reactions, resentments, care, or support.

As a married man if you want to get the best out of your significant other and helper of destiny then you must be mindful of how you treat her and all hers.
In this new blog article below I have been able to put together some of the things men do that make their wives feel special and loved.

1. Give her attention in the home and outside the home especially when she seeks it. Virtually all women are attention-wired. What water is to ‘thirst’ is what ‘attention’ does to the psyche of an average woman. So you want to make your wife feel loved, then do this intentionally?

2. Consciously spend time talking to her daily and listen to her whenever she starts a conversation; do so with undivided attention. One of the things that irritate a woman is her man putting up divided attention when she is talking to him.

3. Another way to make a woman feel loved is to reassure her that she is the most significant person in your life and the marriage. This should be done verbally and regularly. Also, ensure your actions and decisions concerning your extended family members and close associates buttress this unambiguously.

4. Be tender towards her as occasion demands and don’t try to use your masculinity to molest or oppress her personality. Being tender towards your wife is not a sign of weakness but acting from sound knowledge.

5. Seek and take advice from her on virtually all issues that bother the family, your relations, work, business, friends, brethren, the kingdom and even yourself.

6. Express gratitude and appreciation for her good deeds and accomplishments in anything at all. Don’t be silent about it. If others demand it from you (for the good done to you); your spouse deserves it much more from you for those good and thoughtful deeds of hers.

7. Learn to celebrate her strength privately and openly while you try to compliment her weaknesses with love as much as you can. Avoid criticizing her weaknesses, especially in the public.

8. If you want to make your wife feel special never make her look like a dummy or figurehead spouse by bypassing her to discuss important issues with your parents, siblings, Pastor or colleagues before she is briefed.

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9. Don’t rebuke her in the public or the presence of the children, your parents or siblings. If she does anything that calls for rebuke, correct her humbly but don’t insult her.

10. Always protect her before all and sundry even when she tends to act disappointingly once in a while. This could be a bit tough in a few instances but her image should still be your priority.

11. Occasionally let her know from time to time how supportive and encouraging she has been to you and your pursuits. You may even go ahead to list her acts of kindness and grandeur.

12. Occasionally spring surprises at her and do pleasant things that sweep her off her feet. It could be as little as arranging a dinner/lunch outside the home to take off the burden of cooking off her for that day or buying her a new fitting dress.

13. Speak and act towards her in the presence of your loved ones in a way that they would all be compelled to hold her in high esteem. The value you place on your wife is what others would accord her.

14. Support her dreams and ongoing accomplishments with all you’ve got and do it passionately. The truth is at the end of the day if she succeeds it is a family success.

15. Appreciate her from time to time for the roles she plays in the home and your life- from cooking good meals, sharing financial responsibilities to caring for the children.

16. Let honest love and openness be superfluous in your relationship as a couple. Take the lead in this regard. Avoid hiding important developments from her in the area of finance, family projects, even about your career or business pursuits.

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17. Do things she expects you to do as her hubby without making issues out of them especially if they are within your means or you have the resources for them.

18. As much as possible never make her feel used or overwhelmed with the family obligations and responsibilities especially if you are limited in resources temporarily.

19. Show understanding to her in all things even when she least expects it. Such an act makes a woman want to safely trust her husband more and more.

20. Be an all-time and all-around counsellor to her. This will make her have confidence in you and your untainted support for her and her endeavours.

21. Be mindful of her emotional well being and fulfilment; because all women her emotionally wired creatures. Also, don’t downplay her sexual feelings in the bedroom. This is essential in terms of her womanhood and emotional satisfaction.

22. Don’t cage her like a wild animal, give her some autonomy. In other words, allow her to take certain decisions on your behalf and that of the family trusting her judgement will be good and beneficial for all.

23. Don’t befriend anyone who disrespects your wife especially if their reasons for such unwelcoming actions appear to be self-serving. Anyone who dishonours your wife dishonours you.

©️ MAGI (Seyi Igunsabi)

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