Many ladies think sex will be enough to hold us down… Sex does not make us think of marriage or be more serious with marriage.

If one of us tells you, ladies, that unless you have sex with us we will not get married to you, it is either we’re looking for a sex toy in marriage or we’re deceiving you.

If all you can offer is sex, what’s the difference between you and the girl on the street who dresses seductively to get our attention?
After living through life and we decided to get married, do you think having sex with us is enough to determine whether or not we are going to choose you?

Think about it!

We need a woman who will uplift our spirit. A woman who can counsel us when we need it and who won’t just birth our kids but help them grow in wisdom, knowledge, good morals, and standards while becoming a pride and honor to our name. We need mothers for our children, our mums were our best not because of sexual compatibility but because they were our role models, disciplinarians, principles setter, our guide, our first preacher, and our prayer warriors.

They helped us academically, inspired us with their lives to live a blessed life, then you met us, don’t you think we need the same best choice for our children?

Anyone can offer sex…

Are you disciplined? If I can have you easily, how am I not sure my friends- known and unknown, can do the same by just making good promises to you?

We will discuss marriage with a lot of ladies in our lifetime to see if they are fit for us. It’s up to them to spark something that pushes us to settle down right away or just lie around till the next person who we hope to be different comes along.
Not all of us want the sex you’re offering, even if we ask to test your resistance and principles.

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Some of us want a lady who can say ‘No’ adamantly and still be sweet and inspiring! Someone different from every other lady we have met. If it was all about sex, we would have gotten married to our exes!
Some of us need a God-fearing woman.
We need a woman that can guide our daughters to remain chaste till she’s of age to get settled not one who is afraid to correct their wrong decisions because they were not different?
Some of us need a principled woman, a virtuous woman, a woman of standards and principles!

I know some men don’t care about Sexual Purity, and I know it’s either because they think they don’t deserve a great woman like you after living a reckless life, or they are boys looking like men who haven’t learned to tame their passions. Men who don’t care about your standards might bring you disappointment and other issues in marriage. Why? Because they will feel reckless to do anything even if it might hurt you because they don’t have a restriction, self-control, or principles they have to follow because you gave them none and they know you don’t either and don’t trust you to act differently.

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There are still men who are disciplined, emotionally mature, self-controlled, not being able to fall for all ladies, not a lady’s sexual tool, and not controlled by our sexual desires. This class of chaste men can see a lady no matter how naked they appear and still come back to you without touching any of them or looking twice.

Men like us can’t run away from you because you choose to have sex after marriage. Men like us love women who have standards, do not take nonsense, have principles, of great behavior, and are God-fearing and polite. Those kinds of women are irresistible to us.

You all pray for a good marriage, a great man, and your principles will draw us to you. Only your principles and standards will attract us to you, men of dignity like us can only be selected by women of standards.
Great men like us love standards!
Put them all out on the table!
List them!
Say the price!
We love the challenge!
We are up to the task!

I promise we will honor them and treat you like the Queen you are!

©️…. From a man’s thoughts (MAGI)

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