These days, many couples mismanage their sexual lives to their detriment, unknown to them. They tend to toy with sexual issues by reducing the act of sex in their union to bait and starvation tools against their spouses. They do this without regard to the grave consequences that accompany such despicable actions. Sex is the glory of marriage among other things. Some women even say, ‘Is sex food?’ Sex is not just food for connubial closeness; it is meant to be a serious, business-like marriage covenant practice. There can be sex without marriage (although it’s ungodly and immoral), but there is no marriage when there is no sex, because sex is the emotional covenant platform where all marriage deals are sealed.

There is no covenant of any kind on earth that remains VALID & STRONG without some renewable ritual rites; the marriage covenant is not EXEMPTED.

Sex by divine ordination is supposed to be the renewal platform for all marriage blood covenants. Besides, God made sex solely for marriage- the pleasure of it, its bonding effect, and procreation purpose among others.

It is basically an exchange of blood and the innermost beings of the sex partners; hence there is no covenant in marriage until sex happens.
Suffice to say your sex partner (husband or wife) is supposed to be your ONLY covenant partner all the days of your life in all your relationships. Anything short of that is either satanic (occultic) or an abomination.

Parents, siblings and extended family members are all mere blood relations but NOT COVENANT PARTNER. It’ll be as taboo as it were for any of them to become your covenant partner through sex. Besides, we are meant to become one with our spouses only in a lifetime and sex plays a major role in making us walk in the reality of one flesh.

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So when couples employ sex starvation as a punitive tool or bait against their spouses, they are treading a dangerous path. Besides, such individuals may find themselves working against their marital covenant unknowingly. Couples who, for some strange and unacceptable reasons, find it difficult to bond through sex are often vulnerable to extramarital affairs and their associated problems. Masturbation, emotional irritation towards one’s spouse, and pornography are some of these negative tendencies that adversely impact the marriage covenant when sex is not regular between couples.

The covenant role of sex in a marriage is too strong for any couple to think or behave as if sex is not a big deal in the union. Good and regular sex in a marital relationship is not supposed to be negotiated for anything, not even for intense spousal misunderstandings or fatigue. Couples who understand the covenant of marriage and the irreplaceable role sex plays in it understand why they must engage in regular intercourse, all other things being equal. Besides, its immense benefits are too vital to be without in a progressive and robust marital relationship.

Wise and informed couples understand the intrinsic role of sex in the institution of marriage as God intended, and they would not toy with it or encourage sexual starvation as much as possible.

Seyi Igunsabi-Perez
(Family Life Practitioner, Relationship Manager, Marriage Counsellor & Seminar Facilitator)

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