Hearing God’s voice about life partners seems to have become something obsolete and unappealing among today’s singles who are planning to tie the knot. However, I believe it is still the most valid and reliable means of connecting with a destiny partner that would enhance the fulfilment of a glorious destiny and the experience of marriage as God intended.

“Don’t make a mistake in your marriage.
If you carry a wrong lady, you will carry her for life.”- Rev. Josiah Akindayomi (Founder, RCCG).

“Having a successful marriage is to a high degree dependent on your choice of marriage partner.” Pastor E.A Adeboye (G.O RCCG).

In 2014 God told me that:
“Anyone that misses it in marriage might have as well missed it in life.”
And many couples’ true life stories have buttressed this all across the globe.

Making the right choice of partner with the help of the Lord cannot be overemphasised even in our days. In Bible days, people prayed and waited on God for direction about whom to marry and God answered them and connected them to their destiny partners. However, these days, it seems God and divine direction have been taken out of the equation of connecting with destiny partners (wife or husband).

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Choosing a life partner is perhaps the most delicate thing you will ever do in life, as such it must not be done casually or leisurely. But it is unfortunate and grossly misleading that singles of this generation now assume that there is nothing like God’s will in marriage like it used to be taught so many years back.

So what they do is resort to casual friendship or “dating’ for as long as they can go. Then after a while when they feel that they seem to be getting along well with their target, they conclude that it is the will of God for them to peak the relationship in marriage.

But I call that the easy way out or the lazy man approach. And often, it does not end well. No lazy person is entitled to the best of anything incuding marital relationships. Yes!
If it is not God, it is not God and it is not good for you. The fact remains you can not maximize destiny and your marriage by trying to outsmart God that way.
If you are too lazy to seek God to know His perfect will for you in marriage then prepare to work harder to keep the marriage working. Because even when God’s choice is known some hard work is still necessary to keep it going.

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As a Christain single planning to get married you may use approaches that make you circumvent (avoid) the real process of knowing God’s will, but you can not do anything to avert the consequences. Why? Choices, either divine or carnal come with their consequences. It is a packaged deal.

You may dodge the responsibility of knowing God’s will but you will never be able to dodge the consequences of missing God’s will in marriage.

So when I see singles fickling with this decision I know it’s because they don’t understand the gravity of what they are involved in.

It was mummy Gloria Bamiloye that said in a film that showcased the danger of choosing by sight: “Who you marry often determines (even) where you will spend eternity.”
So choosing a marriage partner is a lifetime project that must be started on a proper foundation. And the best composition of your marital foundation is God’s will in the matter.

If it is God, it will be good no matter what you face in the journey. But if it is not God, it will be regrettable either in the short run or in the long run. It does not matter how glamorous you both started the journey. Nothing works like God working it.
Wise singles don’t start a marital union where God is not clearly the initiator or connecting link. Psalm 127:1.
In the words of our father in the Lord, Pastor E.A Adeboye- “God still chooses the right marriage partner for His children who are willing to trust and obey Him.” Psalm. 25:9.

Today’s singles now seem to rely more on dating sites, issues of ‘compatibility’, family backgrounds and material status to choose life partners than get direction from their God. Do these really pass as substitutes for getting unmistaken direction from the Perfect Match-maker?

So in my Insta Live this week Thursday (1st Dec. 2022), I and my bosom friend of almost 35yrs @ Pastor Wale Arowojolu will be examing issues surrounding this to get a clear and sound knowledge about it.

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Thank you.