One of the things that Instigate the worst reaction from a woman (wife) is the feeling of being used and abandoned. Men, beware!

Every woman wants to be loved and respected, not used and dumped. Some men have lost their marriages to this ill-treatment of women while a few have had to even pay with their lives and hard-earned fortunes.

For instance, I remember discussing with a female youth leader in my car one day while I gave her a ride. She expressed great displeasure and disappointment over a brother who took advantage of her position as human resource personnel to secure some jobs and in the end dumped her. Of course, that could be disappointing, and it was to her.

When it comes to men, they hardly get harsh for being used and dumped by women. It may pain them to the marrow but they easily get over it and leave it behind because of their adventurous nature. Most males console themselves in such situations by equating their experience to a game where someone has to carry the day while the other person loses out. But it’s not so with women; that feeling of being used really gets at them and often weighs them down completely. And if care is not taken, it may instigate brutal reactions from a wounded lady or a betrayed wife.

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Do you know that some used and dumped women have gone as far as breaking the new homes of some married men whose victims they were before such men abandoned them and moved on with someone else? There are even women who petitioned their spouses before their employers so that they may be sacked due to their hurting behaviour and unfaithfulness towards them. There was a story I stumbled upon of a woman who even plotted her husband’s death. This was because her husband took a betrayal step that appeared to her as someone who has been used and was about to be dumped.

My advice to men is: as much as possible they should try to build a relationship that lasts with women that they develop an interest in or let these women find their well-meaning lovers next door before hurts will start and multiply in such relationships. So whether you are a married man or a single guy searching for a permanent partner, avoid taking advantage of a woman whom you will not be committed to in the end. Because when it boomerangs as it will always in some cases, the reaction of a female victim could be devastating, shocking and even life-threatening (fatal).

©️ M.A.G.I 

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