The spate of adultery and fornication among brethren in Christendom is becoming increasingly disturbing. Moreover, as it involves pastors and other ministers of the gospel. Therefore, all of us, especially those who are yet to be victims of this seductress who have crept into the church subtly, must now begin to take greater precautions.

Perhaps these few points below, thoughtfully selected, will help many male ministers in this regard.

1. Often, they work their way to come into close contact or friendship with you before they start to execute their mission. In fact, at times, they indirectly enter into your proximity by getting close to your spouse or another important friend of yours. It is almost impossible for an adulterous woman or a seductress to capture her unwilling prey from a distance. Prov. 7:12 – “At times she was outside, at times in the open square, lurking at every corner.”

2. They crave attention from you every now and then, especially if you are both in the same workspace or project group. They can be subtle in this regard. Each time you respond positively, they tend to celebrate it to a notable degree. This latter strategy of a seductress will steal an average man’s heart unless he is disciplined, focused, and spiritually sensitive.

3. They like to keep a line of conversation open with you at the slightest opportunity. Whenever they do this, they love to stay on with you longer than necessary, either through a phone call or a face-to-face conversation. They ensure that their conversation is soothing and emotional at all times, something you look forward to, perhaps due to a loss of communication with your own partner.

4. They use the interrogative strategy, under the guise of showing concern, to gather information from you about your spouse’s inactions and lapses towards you, and they begin to capitalize on it. Before you know it, they start to offer blanket but emotional advice to you. At other times, they come directly, suggesting how they intend to compensate for your spouse’s shortcomings, especially in the area of your emotional and sexual needs. They exempt no one from this approach, even acclaimed ministers of the gospel.

5. They can be mean when it comes to getting physical with you in an immoral manner. They are willing to sacrifice anything for it. A few seductive women would not even mind giving up their pride and dignity before colleagues or even losing their jobs just to share an immoral experience with a boss or a leader. Prov. 30:20 – “This is the way of an adulterous woman: She eats and wipes her mouth, and says, ‘I have done no wickedness.'”

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