1. True love has little or nothing to do with feelings; rather, it always hinges on knowledge and a sense of purpose with regard to love.
2. Marriage is not a place to seek personal or public interest; instead, it is a union of mutual benefits, primarily for the husband and wife. That is why the two become one.
3. If you don’t know how to relate to third parties in marriage, they will deal a great blow to your marital success and progress. As much as possible, you must be wary of third-party intrusions if you want to have a robust marital relationship.
4. God’s universal principles on the marriage institution are still the very best manual for recording a successful and model marriage in all ages.
5. Never marry a person until you have established that their trust level is reasonable enough to instigate the desired joy, tranquility, progress, success, and togetherness required throughout the lifespan of marriage.
6. Never choose a life partner merely out of feelings or a desire to please others. Do it smartly; gather the details so that you will not be detained in a marital dungeon.
7. If your prospect does not believe in the oneness and unity that marriage provides, which discourages either or both of you from laying claim to your possessions in such a union, you need to rethink before you close the deal.
8. Never trivialize the period of courtship. That is the time to check whether the marriage deal is worth sealing.
9. Never marry a man or woman who inspires any form of fear in you or causes trepidation when you are around them. There is no fear in true love.
10. Running your marital relationship and family life with relevant knowledge will save you ten times more than doing it by assumption and public opinion.
11. Your marriage often goes the way of your positive concerted thoughts and efforts. Your marriage can never be better than what you think of it. Your thoughts will always lead to your reality even in marriage. Prov. 23:7.
12. The best policy in marriage is openness. If it is present, every other position would be easy to assume. In fact, many things will fall into line almost naturally.
13. For any marriage to work, the commitment of the couple to the principles of marriage as God intended must surpass their marital vows.
14. The agony of a bad marriage is one of the greatest pains on earth. So be determined to start a marriage journey with someone with whom together you will make it a good and tranquil experience.
15. If you are unmarried, never settle down with a person who resists or disregard spiritual authority. If you do, you may be trapped for life in a union of evil manipulations and violence.
16. There are no bad marriages, we only have bad people who got married and painted marriage black. The marriage idea is a good one from God Almighty and it remains good forever.
17. Never mistake being lovesick for a true love relationship. Being lovesick is very dangerous and misleading. Being lovesick always erodes your sense of rationality, spirituality, commitment and good judgement.
18. Love in marriage is more than just a feeling or an emotion; it is a Choice. Dr Myles Munroe.
It’s a choice that guides your behaviours and actions. It makes you objective in a love relationship.
19. Feelings are only skin deep or brain-wired. But true love is heart-deep. That is why true makes you put reasoning before feelings.
20. The greatest secret to nurturing a successful marriage is UNDERSTANDING. Ensure you have plenty of it and be willing to show it where and when necessary.
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