The power of attraction is one of the greatest pieces of wisdom for entering into right and fulfilling relationships, but unbelievably, many young unmarried people have yet to understand this. The truth is: had Christian singles understood the power and principle of attraction, a good number of them would not have been caught in the web of regrettable marriages that are grossly witnessed today.

I have had to counsel people who, after their wedding, felt they were attracted to the wrong person, but then it was too late to change their choice. If you are unmarried, keep this in mind: often, the best chance you have to build a fulfilling marital relationship starts with your choice. Hence, you must be committed to being attractive for the right reasons and being attracted to the right things in your prospect.

When it comes to relationship matters, you often attract a person like yourself. The earlier one wakes up to this truth, the better it is for anyone who wants to take delivery of a glorious and enviable marital destiny. Some time ago, a pastor and I were discussing his sister’s rakish and rude behavior towards people in general. As we talked, he made me understand how tough it will be for his sister to adjust her unruly behavior, explaining that her husband is like her. Hence, his sister seems to be comfortable with that faulty behavioral pattern because her husband shares the same traits.

For some time now, I have not stopped emphasizing to singles that if they look forward to having a model marriage, then they should be wise in making themselves a prepared vessel (by working on themselves) so that it will be easy for them to attract a prepared vessel like themselves.

Matt. 7:12 states one of the greatest relationship laws: The Law of Fairness. It is when you have developed yourself into an understanding person that you will be able to discern another understanding person like you. Since you possess that nature, it’s much easier to identify someone with a similar nature. This is almost normal and natural to life and living.

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For example, in my parlance, in Nigeria, it is said that: the best person that can trail a thief is usually a thief like him. Similarly, the person who is cunning will easily discern a fellow cunning person when they meet.

The Power of Attraction can not be overemphasized when it comes to relationship matters.
This attraction stuff, from experience and observations, is more spiritual and supernatural in its outcome, than anything else. It is what you put in that determines what you get out of it. Who you are, you attract. I can say this is sacrosanct, from my counselling experience and relationship study.

The big question now is- are you magnetizable or magnetic enough as an unmarried person to attract your dream partner. Do you have the magnetic properties that make you attractive to your dream spouse and which in turn make him or her be magnetizable to you?

Don’t be deceived, even in metals studies, the power of attraction does not come alive in any instance until a magnet comes into contact with a magnetizable material. So it’ll take the magnet and the magnetizable to birth the Power of Attraction.

“Who you are, you attract.
I can say this is sacrosanct, from my counselling experience and relationship study.”

By the grace of God, I can boldly say that my blessed wife was indeed a dream partner at the time I proposed to her; although I did not see these qualities manifest in her until some years after we got married. It’s so exciting that virtually every dream and desire I had about the one who would be my life partner has been playing out in my wife since we got married about 15 years ago. And it’s the same with her concerning me. That’s the power of attraction in connecting with the right person for you and your destiny.

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Now, the interesting thing about our coming together was that neither of us had a list of all we wanted in a prospect that could form prayer points before God. Our desire was basically just to get married in the will of God to a partner who loves and fears God. We had no particular list of features or conditions itemized about whom we would settle for, besides the aforementioned basics. But one day, I was attracted to her. Why? Because by God’s grace, I was magnetizable, and she was magnetic with respect to what we desired in our future spouse.

“Not too long there will be an attraction that would graduate into a desirable connection which leads to a dream robust marriage.”

Do you know that when a magnet comes into contact with a non-magnetizable material, the power of attraction does not become visible; rather, what happens is repulsion? Why? A magnet is sensitive to metals and materials that have one or more magnetic properties. Except for iron, cobalt, or nickel in metal, it can never be magnetic, even if you pray and fast for 40 days and 40 nights.

In the same vein, succeeding in nurturing effective, progressive, and promising relationships does not start and stop with prayers and fasting or the mere acquisition of education; you must have the right virtues and values that make you attractive to the one who will readily complement your efforts towards building your dream marriage and living a fulfilled life.

So, would you like to attract the right partner as a single person or an unmarried person who desires a good and fulfilling marriage? Then make yourself magnetizable to your dream partner by becoming magnetic to him or her. Take time to internalize those values and characteristics you want in your prospect. Before too long, there will be an attraction that will graduate into a desirable connection that leads to a robust dream marriage.

© Seyi Igunsabi for M.A.G.I

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